Friday, November 13, 2009

The Honourary Lesbian

That's her on the right :)

She's my best friend. People use that term loosely, but she really is my best friend. She's my 'person', my port in a storm, my hiding place when things get hard.

The first day of high school I saved her from making an ass of herself in assembly. She stood up in front of me - we were sitting on the floor - without realising her leg had gone lame and fell right over. I caught her and introduced myself.

By the time we were sixteen we were inseparable. Its been almost sixteen years... soon I'm going to have known her for longer than I haven't known her.

We've been there for each other through deaths in the family, through serious illness, through times that are too hard and are too personal to mention here.

She comes from a very traditional Greek Orthodox family but somehow still managed to turn into the liberal person she is today. She couldn't give a rat's ass that I'm gay.

Her husband is one of my best friends. We're each others family. I can't imagine life without her.


You are such a blessing to me.

You make my life better.

Thank you.

4 comments:

Ang said...

Awesome post...Thanks for sharing about Honourary. Every one needs a bff!! I can't wait to meet her in person :)

Camlin said...

Lovely post.

makingspacethejourneyout said...

Oh jeez I'm blubbering over here!!! Such a lovely photo of you both, and what a tribute to a friendship that goes the distance.

Androulla (a.k.a The Honourary Lesbian) said...

Thank you my amazing friend!
You saved me the first time we met (my hero!:)), and have many times since then.
You make it easy to be there for you, cause you're always there for me!
You have made all those torturous times (and there have been many)more manageable, taking on my burdens to ease the load.
We (hubby and I), are happy to have you as family, and yes couldn't care less that you're gay, we love you!
Thank you for all the kind words (you make me blush)!

You're stuck with us for life!

Love you lots!!!

P.S Can't wait to meet you either Ang!

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